Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Never say no.



A few days ago I invited friends for a tabletop game day. I learned something about negotiating in the meanwhile.
One friend I invited said he wasn't sure if he will would come. I answered: "That's ok, if you come you will have a amazing day. "
After talking a bit more he said that he could maybe come but only for maximum a hour or so. I answered: "Awesome, if you come we will it make that hour well worth your time. We will make sure you have fun."
He came to the event and after an hour of  having fun he said: "Ah well, I stay one more hour."
A day after the event he send me a message that he enjoyed it very much.
If I had at any moment said:"That's too bad. ", I don't think he would have come.
It seems to me that it was the positive language and the lack of judging or shaming for potentially not showing up did the trick.
Encouraging every small potential can lead to a "yes" I have noticed in this case
It seems that it is best to never close a  negotiation as a lose yourself even when there seems almost no chance of getting the deal.

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Police responds ice cold to drivers who ‘break the law’.


I have seen a lot of racism popping up on social media.
Brutal police brutality against people who had done nothing wrong.

What can we do to change this?

Sometimes it just takes small acts of compassion to break the pattern.

One act of kindness.

Make somebody laugh today. Makes somebodies day by doing something small.

These two officers made a wonderful yet small gesture that made people's day.


Yes, there is hope if a few are willing to set an example. 
But a lot more needs to change systematically. 

Don't give up;
Do something small.

Make somebodies day. 

Enjoy.